How do i control myself?

ok this is a serious question. im 22 and when i get horny its like hard to control myself. especially when i talk to women. i have tried masturbation but i guess my body can be ready for more in like an hour. i feel that when im around women my judgment is off. and i say perverted things. or things that kinda lead to or make her feel like. i just wanna sleep with you. and i dont wanna make that kind of a first impression. i do not wanna come off as a perv or an asshole. and i feel like when im not attracted to a girl and my hormones haven't kicked in i can have a normal conversation and get along just fine. so like what do i do to control my hormones? masturbate more or get medication or what. thanks in advance.