Am i a victim of rape or sexual abuse at 11? I MUST KNOW ASAP.?

If what you described was all that happened then a rape did not occur he did cross the line when he had you watching porn and sitting on his lap but if he did not touch your privates it would not be molestation, however you should tell your mother and she can either talk to him or contact the authorities in your area to deal with it. What he was doing was very inappropriate and he was working his way into molesting you. Stay away from him and tell your mother.~